The 2nd biggest money mistake women make is over giving to others before taking care of themselves.
Let’s talk: How many times have you given money to your adult children, boyfriends, partners, parents, people in need rather than saving more for your own needs - vacation anyone? …or for your future?
We women are “nice” and caring and that’s a good thing, but not at the expense of our own financial well-being. Lois Frankel, author of Good Girls Don’t Get Rich, says she spent "the first half her adult life believing that doing good and doing well were mutually exclusive."
Most women aren’t this extreme, but I’ve worked with more than one woman who has given large amounts of money from their life savings to men they met online. One woman nearly bankrupted herself.
Can you relate to these financial situations?
- A friend calls and says, “I’m out of money for the month. Could you loan me $100.00 to get me through?”
- Sam, your 22 year-old son wants to move back in rent-free.
- Jodie your 28 year old daughter, asks you for money frequently and is struggling to pay her bills, but buys designer shoes and purses. (And, you feel a little resentful, but override it.)
What do you do to break the over-giving cycle?
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